Friday, 10 January 2014

Happy New Year – 2014… A time for change!


It’s been nearly a full year since I last wrote… and how things have changed! Since February 2013 I’ve been working at the one and only Booking.com, where I’ve spoken with both sides of the globe on a daily basis as a part of my role within Customer Service… Awesome or what?! I’ve therefore plunged headfirst into my first full time job since finishing university.

It’s so great that my voluntary experiences in Lille, both with my European Voluntary Service (a European Commission scheme) and Service Civique (a French scheme), have really given me a taste of working within an international environment. I’ve therefore carried this passion forward into my work at Booking.com.  I’m surrounded by people from many different cultures, speaking so many different languages that I can really learn something new every day... Talk about an eye opener.

But guess what… I’m still living in Lille, more than 2 years after my European Voluntary Service ended in November 2011! I could never have imagined that I would have stayed so long after finishing, but what can I say… there’s something gripping about this beautiful city.  I would definitely recommend it for a weekend away.  It’s so easy to get to from London, Paris and Brussels… You just need to jump on a train.

Lille from the sky. December 2013. Copyright David Warburton
So here’s to 2014. I hope that many more new faces appear in 2014 in Lille to say a quick “Hi” to the locals. I want to wish you all a wonderful new year, full of surprises, happiness, personal fulfillment, ambition, personal development and of course…. Love!

I want to share with you the following poem I wrote in 2011.  Remember, embrace change with open arms and learn from any mistakes you may make – We all make them!

Changes

Any change
However large or small
May feel like a mountain
Or nothing at all

Individual differences
Leaps of faith
Changes in life
Mustn't be lost in the race

Moving on forward
For better or worse
Moving into new pastures
Resisting the curse

Change of environment
Everything unknown
Challenge to ignite
The seeds already sewn

Making new friends
Lighting new fires
Sharing your story
Within your history, crossing wires

Any change
Helps in life to grow
Willing to succeed
Forever more seeds to sew

Keep smiling everyone and look forward to better things in 2014. You will be hearing from me soon :-D

Wednesday, 30 January 2013

The End of an Era


So here I am… the last day of my volunteer life.  I can’t believe I’m actually finishing today (well officially on Friday but… small details lol).  I’m just completely in shock.  A sad moment, I have to say.  I have spent a total of 15 months volunteering at La Mission Locale de Lille in the North of France, with the helping hand of Yves Bourdérou guiding me along the way. 

It has been a rollercoaster of a ride and I cannot hide the fact that it has been incredibly challenging at times, but worth every single minute.  Learning a language can be daunting and difficult.  That combined with the new skills I have learned and others that I have developed, my 15 months have been a challenge well worth accepting!!!

I have become more and more attached to the world of European Mobility.  The ability to give a volunteer an opportunity of a lifetime is just so special.  In the past 2 weeks I have been able to find projects for 2 volunteers in Turkey, one who will be going for 8 months and another for 9 months.  Another volunteer whom I’ve been working with for months had a positive reply for a project in Slovakia, where she will be for 9 or 10 months.  Another will be attending a short term project for 2 months with a project in Turkey.  How amazing is that?!

This is my last group of volunteers that I have been working with in my English workshops :

My last English workshop ever ... So obviously we had to have a mini party ;-)
A meeting with the volunteers departing on Léonardo projects
Me with the volunteers who have improved so much in English in the last 2 months
So there you go…. I’m leaving on a high as I know that I've helped some people to have a chance to go far away which will inevitably change their lives, as volunteering has my own.  I cannot count on 2 hands the number of people that have asked me when I’m going back to England .  The answer is that I’m not. I’m still loving this region and my new job is here, so why not stay ;-)

Lille is a city perfectly located between London (1h30), Paris (1h20) and Brussels (45m), as well as having easy access to Germany (3h), the Netherlands (3h) and Luxembourg (4h).  10 minutes walk from my house I also have a big park with lakes and LOTS of herons :-) So nice !!!

I’m going to head off for now.  I shall update you on how my situation is going once I’m settled into my new job.  One last thing… I want to say a HUGE THANK YOU to the one and only Yves.  I’m rubbish at saying personal things out loud but can write (yes it's easier on a blog for the world to see... crazy right?), so thank you so so much for everything.  My parents are also incredibly grateful for the opportunities you have given me.  These voluntary projects have opened so many doors up to me and I will be forever thankful for that :-) THANK YOUUUUUU :-D :-D :-D

Peace out ;-)  

Tuesday, 15 January 2013

HAPPY NEW YEAR 2013


Heyy everyone !!!

What can I say … It’s been a very long time since I last posted and for that I’m sorry.  I just seem to get lost in what I’m doing and completely forget about my poor blog !!!

As for me, my Christmas and New Year were great, spent skiing in the French Alps and with family and friends in the UK.  It all passed in a flash and now I’m back into life in Lille, France (where I love).  It’s good to get back into some kind of routine.

At La Mission Locale de Lille where I’m doing my Service Civique voluntary project, EVS (European Voluntary Service) applications are on over drive as the deadline for processing all the documents is the beginning of February.  That means that our volunteers here are desperately trying to find projects abroad. Stick at it everyone still searching; you never know J

I still love my project and am creating more and more interesting and diverse activities for my English workshops every week.  Saying that, I only have 3 weeks left !!! It’s going to feel so weird to no longer be at La Mission Locale …. That will be 15 months in total here… Think I’ll feel homeack about La ML.  What great experience and language skills I have gained.  But working life awaits J

In terms of volunteering, anyone that is thinking about it and has never really known how to do it or the guts in general, just go for it.  It really does change your life and your perspective on society in general.  You can research into programs provided within Europe such as EVS and Leonardo da Vinci Program.  For example, if you are in North of England, check out this website:


This organisation is based in Leeds and is the reason I’m in France in the first place.  Great people and so so helpful !!!! :-D

Furthermore, if you look on the following website, you can see the database for EVS projects.  You could easily find a sending organisation (near you in your country who would help you and do the necessary paperwork) and then a hosting organisation (where you would do your project):


For EVS, you have to have a sending organisation in your own country, otherwise it’s not possible J

It’s actually really quite simple if you’re patient.  Find your sending organisation, prepare your CV and motivation letter, apply to hosting projects (as many as you can), then when you find your project, you depart 3 months after the deadline.  Everything is paid for; including flights, accommodation etc, and you can do all kinds of different types of projects.  For example, you could be working with turtles in Turkey or with elderly ill people in Spain.  The world really is your oyster!

I hope that this information is at least a bit useful.  I just want other people to share the amazing opportunities that I have had in the last 2 years since finishing university.  In June 2011, I moved abroad and have never really looked back.  I think it’s safe to say that 2013 will be my first full year living away from the UK and I’m so excited at what’s to come.

So here’s to wishing you all Happy New Year 2013.  I hope that all of your dreams come true and that if something in your life isn’t right, you decide to MAKE A CHANGE.

And always remember…. Keep Smiling !!!! 

Tuesday, 4 December 2012

STEREOTYPES – Volunteers at La Mission Locale de Lille


During my English workshops with La Mission Locale, I love to discuss topics that are relevant to everyday life and draw attention to reality.  I therefore find discussing stereotypes particularly interesting.  We all have stereotypes about different countries / people / cultures etc…. About everything! It is important to understand what these stereotypes are.  We can then consider which stereotypes are actually facts and which are generally just stereotypes of a large group of people where in fact only a minority are concerned.  This is where prejudice and racism can stem from. 

Considering this, I spent a lesson discussing with a couple of advanced learners what they thought were different stereotypes associated with certain countries.  It's important to remember that stereotypes can be positive and negative.  See what you think of the ideas below: (Note they are not necessarily their own stereotypes, but stereotypes that others may have)

France

  • Suffer from depression and stress BUT this makes them stronger – They use the rage to progress in life
  • Shy and quiet
  • Never smile, particularly in the metro
  • Always thinking about earning money
  • Always talking about holidays

United States of America

  • They are all XXL – they love cheeseburgers too much (or fast food in general)
  • Have lots of guns on the street
  • Always have money on the mind
  • Think that they are the best in the world
  • Have good movies but naturally because they have lots of money to achieve this
  • Love basketball
  • “The American Dream”

Australia (easily the most positive stereotypes)

  • Lots of kangaroos
  • Love surfing
  • Have lots of jobs
  • Active and dynamic due to business

England (naturally this was the easiest category…)

  • Proud of their culture
  • The island is the centre of the world
  • Very cosmopolitan
  • Romantic (this is inspired from Shakespeare…hmm)
  • Rock n’ Roll lifestyle – make good music
  • Hardworking
  • Mr Bean
  • They drive on the left and believe that it must therefore be the same in the rest of the world
  • Love singing “God Save the Queen”
  • Not boring
  • Nice accent (!)
  • Very posh and clean
What do you reckon to these?? Do you agree? Do you have others to add... Really interested to know !!!

Take care everyone :-D

Wednesday, 28 November 2012

Poetry..... in French !!!

I've got so many thing I want to say and do on here but I never seem to find the time doh !!! This is just a quick one to say I succeeded in writing my first French poem the other day... Ok don't judge the grammar, but it's the thought that counts ;-)

La solidarité de la rue

La solidarité de la rue
Comment je souhaite que j'avais su
C'est quoi cette folie qu'on vie ici
La solidarité existe? Mais apparemment, si !

La solidarité de la rue
Les yeux ouvert, j'ai éventuellement cru
Il regards mais il ne voie pas
L'homme invisible sur le terre; il est humain, il est là !

La solidarité de la rue
C'est cassé et ne marche plus; je n'avais pas su
Il n'existe ni le soutien ni les esprits ouverts
Faut sonner les réveils et entendre les alertes !

La solidarité de la rue
Il faut aider maintenant mais on ne l'a jamais cru
C'est chacun pour chacun dans ce monde
Mais on doit rester tous ensemble car ce monde, il est ronde !


Qu'est-ce que vous pensez?? What do you reckon?

Hope you are all doing great out there in the big wide world anyhow and take care ;-)

Tuesday, 23 October 2012

Story Time - EVS Lille Style

Every time I have an English Workshop, I try to make the exercises lively and interesting.  If the young people generally have a good level of spoken English, I will try to have them speaking amongst themselves as much as possible.  At the same time, I adapt what I do when I have established the general mood amongst the group.

Last week, I had an English Workshop with a group of 4 young women and everyone was really quite quiet, shy and tired, so I thought I would try a new activity; Story Circle” I shall call it ;-) Haha.  I chose one person in the group, told them to start a story with anything at all and said that we would keep going around the circle one at a time until the story was “complete”.  1 hour and 15 minutes later, this is what we came up with (and yes, I did take part because it was simply too much fun... sorry for the editing by the way) :  ENJOYYYYY :D :D

Marie :           Once upon a time, there was a frog with very long hair.
Lucie :            The frog met a pink little horse in the forest.
Lorraine :       They wanted to shopping in the next town.  They passed through the forest, when suddenly…
Jezabel :        They met a chicken who wanted to go with them.  They said yes because they knew that the more they were, the more they would laugh.
Amandine :    Along the route the chicken lost his feathers.
Rebekah :      The frog and the horse were hungry and saw that the chicken was ready to eat.
Marie :           The chicken proposed to his friends that they didn’t eat him but that they should look for food in the forest instead.  They decided to kill a rabbit and stole the fur of the rabbit for the chicken because he was cold.
Lucie :            The rabbit was too little for everyone to eat and the little pink horse wanted to go to Mc Donald’s with the fake rabbit (chicken) and the frog.  If 3 people bought food, there would be a sale in Mc Donald’s.
Lorraine :       Unfortunately, Mc Donald’s was closed so they decided to go to So Good for a coffee.  After a while, the chicken decided to go to the toilet and never came back.
Jezabel :        They called the chicken with a mobile phone and the chicken didn’t answer, so the frog went to the toilet and he didn’t come back either.
Amandine :    The little pink horse was very scared because he smelled the chicken burning and the frog as well (the French eat frog’s legs!).
Rebekah :      In fact, the little pink horse went to the toilet and saw a magic portal that made the chicken and frog disappear.  The smell was due to the movement in the magic portal.
Marie :           But the little pink horse was very clever and decided not to enter in the magic portal.  He called other friends (shouted “frienndddssss”) to help their friends.  3 ninja turtles appeared.
Lucie :            1 ninja turtle got lost on the way because he was hungry and wanted pizza. In the pizzeria, there was a second magic portal.  He found the chicken/rabbit and the frog in the pizzeria.
Lorraine :       Finally, the 3 other turtles and the horse decided to pass through the portal and arrived in the pizzeria.  After finding the others and eating pizza, they decided to go shopping.
Jezabel :        The problem was that some “people” wanted to buy computer games and others wanted to buy clothes.  They couldn’t agree on which shop. They were arguing.
Amandine :    They were shopping but became enemies. The ninja turtles were against the frog, chicken/rabbit and the little pink horse.
Rebekah :      Suddenly, the animals realised that they are not human beings and that they really wanted to be, so they returned to the magic portal.
Marie :           When they arrived in front of the magic portal, they found a magic book.  There were magic sentences to achieve their dreams.
Lucie :            They decided to change the world together and not to change themselves.  All the people became animals.  The problem of shopping was no more.
Lorraine :       They went back to the forest to do things that animals are used to doing.
Jezabel :        When they remembered, they opened the magic book again and they wanted to make a wish for the second dream.  The second wish was to open an animals shop in the forest, because everyone there were now animals.
Amandine :    They made it into a prevention centre against carnivores.
Rebekah :      For a while, it worked very well, but eventually the carnivores realised that they did not like the life of a herbivore and they revolted.
Marie :            The carnivores decided to open a shop of humans (they really wanted to eat human meat).  They cultivated humans for their meat, because the humans grew up rapidly.
Lucie :            A big war between the herbivores and carnivores began, but the carnivores had the magic book in their possession with one dream left.  They decided to change all the herbivores into humans and to make the biggest dinner of the year with all the friends to make fast food out of humans.
Lorraine :       But the vegetarian humans decided to free the humans in the human shop.  Altogether, they killed all the carnivore animals.
Jezabel :        They needed to dig graves for all of the carnivore animals because it wasn’t beautiful to have the bodies everywhere.  They cleaned the forest because there was blood everywhere because the killing was violent (yes the vegetarian humans KILLED the carnivore animals violently).
Amandine :    There was illnesses that developed due to so many dead bodies.
Rebekah :      The 4 ninja turtles, the chicken/rabbit, the pink little horse and the frog found each other back at the magic portal at the pizzeria in their human bodies.  They wanted to find a solution to go back in time, because they realised their mistakes with their wishes.
Marie :            They didn’t find a solution because it’s not possible to return in the past.  They decided to build a big spaceship with the remaining humans to escape the illnesses.
Lucie :            When the 21st of December arrived, a big catastrophe on the Earth killed everyone, but the spaceship was in another galaxy at this moment.  They could see the news and television.  They were now homeless in space, like a star.
Lorraine :       They arrived on a new planet and they decided to create a new world without violence, where everybody could live in peace for the rest of their lives.

Thursday, 4 October 2012

Peace of Mind

Just a very quick update … Isn’t it amazing how when life can get really hectic and all over, that you can find peace in the simplest of things ?!

Sunday morning I woke up, grabbed my camera (SLR), and went straight out into the sun.  I was snap happy for an hour, just in my own little world, and wow I got some good shots… so pleased !!! It set me up for the rest of the day … A great afternoon spent with friends and an early night… Bliss J

My project at La Mission Locale de Lille is going great as well.  I’m getting involved in plenty of things and keeping busy.  I’m taking lots of English classes too ;-) My French is also coming on leaps and bounds, although there are some rules I find so difficult to get my head around.

For example, when writing in the past tense, to conjugate a verb with avoir (to have), you will have the normal endings to the conjugated verb unless there is an object in the sentence before it that it needs to agree with (and this rule doesn’t apply to être – to be).

So, we can say “On a choisi les 2 thématiques” with the normal conjugation, but if we say “Les 2 thématiques qu’on a choisies” you see the extra ES added.  French language is crazily complicated !!!  Gotta love it though :-D Hope I explained that right / Understood what was talking about !

Oh and by the way, I'm so excited ... mum, dad and Ben are arriving in 3 weeks for a week holiday ..... OH YEAH ... nearly 6 months since seeing my mum and brother !!!

Mum and Dad here in 2011 :-)
Anyhoo, I’m going to head off in a minute… Time for my support session where I help volunteers to prepare their CV’s and motivation letters in English.  Then on to babysitting… Then on to La Ducasse ….. Ahhhh and breathhhhhh :-D :-D

Keep smiling everyone !!!!