Tuesday, 4 December 2012

STEREOTYPES – Volunteers at La Mission Locale de Lille


During my English workshops with La Mission Locale, I love to discuss topics that are relevant to everyday life and draw attention to reality.  I therefore find discussing stereotypes particularly interesting.  We all have stereotypes about different countries / people / cultures etc…. About everything! It is important to understand what these stereotypes are.  We can then consider which stereotypes are actually facts and which are generally just stereotypes of a large group of people where in fact only a minority are concerned.  This is where prejudice and racism can stem from. 

Considering this, I spent a lesson discussing with a couple of advanced learners what they thought were different stereotypes associated with certain countries.  It's important to remember that stereotypes can be positive and negative.  See what you think of the ideas below: (Note they are not necessarily their own stereotypes, but stereotypes that others may have)

France

  • Suffer from depression and stress BUT this makes them stronger – They use the rage to progress in life
  • Shy and quiet
  • Never smile, particularly in the metro
  • Always thinking about earning money
  • Always talking about holidays

United States of America

  • They are all XXL – they love cheeseburgers too much (or fast food in general)
  • Have lots of guns on the street
  • Always have money on the mind
  • Think that they are the best in the world
  • Have good movies but naturally because they have lots of money to achieve this
  • Love basketball
  • “The American Dream”

Australia (easily the most positive stereotypes)

  • Lots of kangaroos
  • Love surfing
  • Have lots of jobs
  • Active and dynamic due to business

England (naturally this was the easiest category…)

  • Proud of their culture
  • The island is the centre of the world
  • Very cosmopolitan
  • Romantic (this is inspired from Shakespeare…hmm)
  • Rock n’ Roll lifestyle – make good music
  • Hardworking
  • Mr Bean
  • They drive on the left and believe that it must therefore be the same in the rest of the world
  • Love singing “God Save the Queen”
  • Not boring
  • Nice accent (!)
  • Very posh and clean
What do you reckon to these?? Do you agree? Do you have others to add... Really interested to know !!!

Take care everyone :-D

Wednesday, 28 November 2012

Poetry..... in French !!!

I've got so many thing I want to say and do on here but I never seem to find the time doh !!! This is just a quick one to say I succeeded in writing my first French poem the other day... Ok don't judge the grammar, but it's the thought that counts ;-)

La solidarité de la rue

La solidarité de la rue
Comment je souhaite que j'avais su
C'est quoi cette folie qu'on vie ici
La solidarité existe? Mais apparemment, si !

La solidarité de la rue
Les yeux ouvert, j'ai éventuellement cru
Il regards mais il ne voie pas
L'homme invisible sur le terre; il est humain, il est là !

La solidarité de la rue
C'est cassé et ne marche plus; je n'avais pas su
Il n'existe ni le soutien ni les esprits ouverts
Faut sonner les réveils et entendre les alertes !

La solidarité de la rue
Il faut aider maintenant mais on ne l'a jamais cru
C'est chacun pour chacun dans ce monde
Mais on doit rester tous ensemble car ce monde, il est ronde !


Qu'est-ce que vous pensez?? What do you reckon?

Hope you are all doing great out there in the big wide world anyhow and take care ;-)

Tuesday, 23 October 2012

Story Time - EVS Lille Style

Every time I have an English Workshop, I try to make the exercises lively and interesting.  If the young people generally have a good level of spoken English, I will try to have them speaking amongst themselves as much as possible.  At the same time, I adapt what I do when I have established the general mood amongst the group.

Last week, I had an English Workshop with a group of 4 young women and everyone was really quite quiet, shy and tired, so I thought I would try a new activity; Story Circle” I shall call it ;-) Haha.  I chose one person in the group, told them to start a story with anything at all and said that we would keep going around the circle one at a time until the story was “complete”.  1 hour and 15 minutes later, this is what we came up with (and yes, I did take part because it was simply too much fun... sorry for the editing by the way) :  ENJOYYYYY :D :D

Marie :           Once upon a time, there was a frog with very long hair.
Lucie :            The frog met a pink little horse in the forest.
Lorraine :       They wanted to shopping in the next town.  They passed through the forest, when suddenly…
Jezabel :        They met a chicken who wanted to go with them.  They said yes because they knew that the more they were, the more they would laugh.
Amandine :    Along the route the chicken lost his feathers.
Rebekah :      The frog and the horse were hungry and saw that the chicken was ready to eat.
Marie :           The chicken proposed to his friends that they didn’t eat him but that they should look for food in the forest instead.  They decided to kill a rabbit and stole the fur of the rabbit for the chicken because he was cold.
Lucie :            The rabbit was too little for everyone to eat and the little pink horse wanted to go to Mc Donald’s with the fake rabbit (chicken) and the frog.  If 3 people bought food, there would be a sale in Mc Donald’s.
Lorraine :       Unfortunately, Mc Donald’s was closed so they decided to go to So Good for a coffee.  After a while, the chicken decided to go to the toilet and never came back.
Jezabel :        They called the chicken with a mobile phone and the chicken didn’t answer, so the frog went to the toilet and he didn’t come back either.
Amandine :    The little pink horse was very scared because he smelled the chicken burning and the frog as well (the French eat frog’s legs!).
Rebekah :      In fact, the little pink horse went to the toilet and saw a magic portal that made the chicken and frog disappear.  The smell was due to the movement in the magic portal.
Marie :           But the little pink horse was very clever and decided not to enter in the magic portal.  He called other friends (shouted “frienndddssss”) to help their friends.  3 ninja turtles appeared.
Lucie :            1 ninja turtle got lost on the way because he was hungry and wanted pizza. In the pizzeria, there was a second magic portal.  He found the chicken/rabbit and the frog in the pizzeria.
Lorraine :       Finally, the 3 other turtles and the horse decided to pass through the portal and arrived in the pizzeria.  After finding the others and eating pizza, they decided to go shopping.
Jezabel :        The problem was that some “people” wanted to buy computer games and others wanted to buy clothes.  They couldn’t agree on which shop. They were arguing.
Amandine :    They were shopping but became enemies. The ninja turtles were against the frog, chicken/rabbit and the little pink horse.
Rebekah :      Suddenly, the animals realised that they are not human beings and that they really wanted to be, so they returned to the magic portal.
Marie :           When they arrived in front of the magic portal, they found a magic book.  There were magic sentences to achieve their dreams.
Lucie :            They decided to change the world together and not to change themselves.  All the people became animals.  The problem of shopping was no more.
Lorraine :       They went back to the forest to do things that animals are used to doing.
Jezabel :        When they remembered, they opened the magic book again and they wanted to make a wish for the second dream.  The second wish was to open an animals shop in the forest, because everyone there were now animals.
Amandine :    They made it into a prevention centre against carnivores.
Rebekah :      For a while, it worked very well, but eventually the carnivores realised that they did not like the life of a herbivore and they revolted.
Marie :            The carnivores decided to open a shop of humans (they really wanted to eat human meat).  They cultivated humans for their meat, because the humans grew up rapidly.
Lucie :            A big war between the herbivores and carnivores began, but the carnivores had the magic book in their possession with one dream left.  They decided to change all the herbivores into humans and to make the biggest dinner of the year with all the friends to make fast food out of humans.
Lorraine :       But the vegetarian humans decided to free the humans in the human shop.  Altogether, they killed all the carnivore animals.
Jezabel :        They needed to dig graves for all of the carnivore animals because it wasn’t beautiful to have the bodies everywhere.  They cleaned the forest because there was blood everywhere because the killing was violent (yes the vegetarian humans KILLED the carnivore animals violently).
Amandine :    There was illnesses that developed due to so many dead bodies.
Rebekah :      The 4 ninja turtles, the chicken/rabbit, the pink little horse and the frog found each other back at the magic portal at the pizzeria in their human bodies.  They wanted to find a solution to go back in time, because they realised their mistakes with their wishes.
Marie :            They didn’t find a solution because it’s not possible to return in the past.  They decided to build a big spaceship with the remaining humans to escape the illnesses.
Lucie :            When the 21st of December arrived, a big catastrophe on the Earth killed everyone, but the spaceship was in another galaxy at this moment.  They could see the news and television.  They were now homeless in space, like a star.
Lorraine :       They arrived on a new planet and they decided to create a new world without violence, where everybody could live in peace for the rest of their lives.

Thursday, 4 October 2012

Peace of Mind

Just a very quick update … Isn’t it amazing how when life can get really hectic and all over, that you can find peace in the simplest of things ?!

Sunday morning I woke up, grabbed my camera (SLR), and went straight out into the sun.  I was snap happy for an hour, just in my own little world, and wow I got some good shots… so pleased !!! It set me up for the rest of the day … A great afternoon spent with friends and an early night… Bliss J

My project at La Mission Locale de Lille is going great as well.  I’m getting involved in plenty of things and keeping busy.  I’m taking lots of English classes too ;-) My French is also coming on leaps and bounds, although there are some rules I find so difficult to get my head around.

For example, when writing in the past tense, to conjugate a verb with avoir (to have), you will have the normal endings to the conjugated verb unless there is an object in the sentence before it that it needs to agree with (and this rule doesn’t apply to être – to be).

So, we can say “On a choisi les 2 thématiques” with the normal conjugation, but if we say “Les 2 thématiques qu’on a choisies” you see the extra ES added.  French language is crazily complicated !!!  Gotta love it though :-D Hope I explained that right / Understood what was talking about !

Oh and by the way, I'm so excited ... mum, dad and Ben are arriving in 3 weeks for a week holiday ..... OH YEAH ... nearly 6 months since seeing my mum and brother !!!

Mum and Dad here in 2011 :-)
Anyhoo, I’m going to head off in a minute… Time for my support session where I help volunteers to prepare their CV’s and motivation letters in English.  Then on to babysitting… Then on to La Ducasse ….. Ahhhh and breathhhhhh :-D :-D

Keep smiling everyone !!!!

Thursday, 27 September 2012

Volunteering Changes Lives

I woke up this morning with a smile on my face … I may have been ill and with the knowledge that I would work 3 different jobs in one day, but my oh my, I know when to appreciate what I’ve got ! Within the space of 5 months, I have managed to slowly settle in and am now comfortable, knowing I have enough money to buy great food, treat myself now and again, and put a bit aside (skiing oh yeahhh).  It’s a nice yet strange feeling (but trust me, I have to work hard for it) !

I know that some people may frown upon doing over a year of volunteering following achieving a good university degree, but it can be so fulfilling.  As a volunteer, you know that what you are doing will be beneficial to your future, and at the same time you learn to find motivation not from the money that you are paid, but from the personal achievements throughout and the ability to help others.

A great example of how it can benefit your future is how another volunteer with Service Civique this week signed a permanent contract with an association that works with European mobility… Exactly the same project that we have both been doing with our respective Mission Locale’s.  She will begin on Monday, how amazing is that?!… With motivation and passion, volunteering really can be a first step on the ladder towards a fulfilling career !

In terms of my voluntary project, I’m really enjoying it.  I’m constantly in contact with different young adults who would like to volunteer abroad, as well as people from other organisations.  For example, yesterday I went to Aniche, a town South of Lille, for a mobility forum.  I was there with La Mission Locale de Douaisis and we had a stand where we were promoting European Mobility.  I talked about my experiences and described what the European Voluntary Service can offer.  I’m a direct example of how it can open up doors to moving to another country J

As well as this project, I’m still loving working in La Ducasse (a busy restaurant here in Lille)… You can never get bored and the team is great ;-)  I have also started a few hours of babysitting a week … Yes I do sleep now and again ;-)

I hope everything is going well for everyone and always keep smiling … When you smile at the world, the world smiles back !!! :-D
The stand at the forum with Fabienne who works at La Mission Locale de Douasis

The team of young volunteers including me (far left)

A presentation the same day of the emergency services

Again the presentation as they are cutting open the car !!

Thursday, 6 September 2012

The Braderie of Lille


Every day is different
A challenge in its own right
New things to be learned
Fresh paths to be taken
Sometimes wrong, but often right

The weekend gone by
Came the braderie to Lille
The biggest flea market in Europe
2.5 million People passing through
“I’ll take it for 4€”, “Ok, it’s a deal”

My wonderful dad arrived
Thursday morning, excited yet exhausted
What an amazing time was to be had
Little did he know
All his emotions would be tested

We laughed and we cried
We frowned, yet in wonder and disbelief
We shared incredible times
Photographing our way through the weekend
I imagine on Tuesday that his bed came as a relief

The nights I worked full speed ahead
In the restaurant that is La Ducasse
Hungry tourists demanding their share of mussels
Along with gallons of beer
I wondered how long they could last

During four days I lived a split life
Balancing love and work evenly
Profiting of every minute with loved ones
Yet committing to work with a passion
Not a feat achieved easily

Now I can breathe a sigh of relief
Structure will return back in to life
The overwhelming effect of the braderie withdraws
I can again, cosy and relaxed at night
To sleep seven hours, what a surprise!

But most importantly, thank you dad
For your incredible presence across the border
In our lives here in Lille you touched many
Here’s to October with you, mum and Ben coming
When everything will be in more order.
So happy when dad arrived :-D
Rue de Bethune (main pedestrian shopping street) in the Braderie
Dad all smiles ... His t-shirt attracted plenty of attention :-)
The Braderie was even outside La Mission Locale !!!



Wednesday, 29 August 2012

Heatwave

It’s been so damned hot … I never NEVER expected to see temperatures reaching 37 degrees in Lille but trust me, it did!!  Now it's nicely levelled out in the 20's with the odd bit of rain (strangely refreshing).  Hopefully it will hold out during this weekend (the braderie).  The braderie is the biggest flea market in Europe... wow! And I'll be working in the restaurant... our body's are going to hurrrrtttt.

Two weeks ago I was in Paris, and the heat was astounding.  It was 37 / 38 but with the added humidity of a huge polluted city, it was uncomfortable to say the least… Certainly no sunbathing hehe.  Saying that, I had a great time there seeing a friend I met in Lille last time I was here.  Imagine sitting on a quayside with friends until 2.30am, in strappy tops because it’s such a nice temperature… Reminded me of Barcelona!
Quayside in Paris

Other than that, I had a great holiday.  I spent it mainly at home (Villeneuve d’Ascq next to Lille), and really made the best of loooong sleep ins, lots of sports, good company and very healthy eating.  Trust me it does a lot of good to spend 2 or 3 weeks focussing on your body.  I’ve started losing weight and feel much healthier... you can never underestimate how good that can make you feel.  I have also started playing basketball now and again, jogging, swimming, use my scooter a lot and just bought roller blades! Naturally the roller blades are the most fun (though the diving board at the swimming pool comes pretty close).  I even did some gymnastics and capoeira in the park …

I started back at the restaurant a week and a half ago and la Mission Locale a week ago.  It’s taking a while to get my mind back in shape but it’s going well.  At La Mission Locale, I met two young people last week who are searching for long-term voluntary projects, and who would like to leave in January.  For this they have to find a project by the 1st October (there’s really tight deadlines), so I’m helping with CV’s and motivation letters, as well as the general research.  The database can be tricky seeing as it’s all in English.  What you have to remember is that the majority of the people writing the project descriptions are not usually native English speakers either, so trying to translate in google translate (or such like) is not always effective.

Right now I'm ridiculously excited because my dad will be arriving in Lille in around 18 hours.  His big adventure will involve checking out the braderie (and lots of photos ;-) ).  I know we will have a fab time (but by Monday we will be exhausted hehe).

Will update you after the braderie .... there are no words to describe the crowds and the atmosphere ... maybe the photos will demonstrate !!!

I've attached below a couple of pictures of the wall I decorated with posters and postcards in our office, as well as my little desk :D

Take care and have a great 2nd half of the week !!!! :D



My desk :-) I use the knife to stir my coffee hahaha

Ain't it pretty ? hehe